Lyrics
Chorus: Meaning
The chorus establishes the core conflict of the song: a relationship caught in a stalemate. Bieber admits that claiming either side is definitively "right" or "wrong" would be a lie, highlighting the complexity and shared fault in their arguments. His repeated declaration, "I don't wanna fight," is a cry of exhaustion, which clashes with the reality he feels manipulated into: "I'll take the bait if that's what you want." This reveals a toxic dynamic where he feels provoked into conflicts he'd rather avoid.
First Verse & Refrain: Meaning
In the first verse, Bieber asserts his maturity and sets boundaries, warning his partner that he's not interested in petty, retaliatory arguments ("not doin' tit-for-tat"). The aggressive tone and explicit language show his frustration boiling over, cautioning her not to push him to say something he'll regret. The refrain then paints a picture of their toxic cycle: an argument starts, fueled by his intoxication, which she uses as blame. This is immediately followed by a makeup session and a return to the very behavior that caused the issue ("roll another one"). The line "I do what I want" is a defiant assertion of his independence, even if it contributes to the problem.
Second Verse: Meaning
This verse marks a shift from confrontation to a desire for connection. He wants to move past the verbal sparring ("speak no more lies") and reconnect on a physical and emotional level. He pleads with her to see past her "disguise" of anger or paranoia, believing her love for him is real and independent of her insecurities. He positions himself as a source of genuine comfort ("not just sympathy") and then throws down an ultimatum: "Wanna play for keeps or is it all a game?" He's questioning the seriousness of their relationship and forcing her to decide if the endless fighting is just a game to her.
Outro: Meaning
The outro strips away all the anger and defiance, revealing Bieber's true, vulnerable feelings. The repeated chant "Don't wanna fight" becomes a mantra of his exhaustion. Woven throughout this are the whispered ad-libs "I miss you." This contrast shows that beneath all the toxic cycles and frustrating arguments, his fundamental desire is for closeness and reconciliation. The fight is just noise; what he really feels is the pain of her absence.